It’s really rather unscientific to generalise backgrounds behind personalities. Any parenting is flawed, and it’s impossible to enter adulthood and not have experienced bad circumstances.
I’m not convinced that I’m generalising—could you explain how you got this idea?
Anyway, I think there’s a difference between tolerance and understanding, and we should not allow aggression nor submission. The reasonable thing is to understand and bring the necessary changes, no?
Aggressive, or passionate?